Lifestyle

Following my personal and professional life as a twenty-something muddling her way through life post-university.

freelance jobs

What freelance jobs do you actually do?

18th March 2022

Well it has been a little while eh? I almost panicked that I wouldn’t remember how to write a blog today, but it turns out spilling my thoughts onto paper is something that comes quite easily for me (perhaps too easily, I should really try and hold some thoughts back).  In short, the past few […]

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citroen c3

Escaping to the Coast in the New Citroen C3

10th August 2021

I had the pleasure of being loaned a new Citroen C3 a few weeks ago to take a much-needed trip down to the North Norfolk Coast. It’s one of our favourite spots in the country and since the weather’s been good, we’ve been back and forth as much as possible!  I’d never driven a Citroen […]

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dating after a year of being single

Six Tips for Dating (Again) After the Pandemic

24th June 2021

Well, well, well, dating apps my old friends. I dated on and off throughout the pandemic, but honestly, I couldn’t see people I liked, so I really didn’t get the appeal of going to meet a stranger in the park. It’s how all murders start right? Beside the frankly terrifying safety implications for women being […]

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normalise not texting back when we aren't OK

We need to normalise not texting back when we aren’t OK

10th May 2021

At a time when we’ve never needed friends more, it’s been more difficult than ever to sustain friendships. It’s likely that you haven’t seen some of your ride or die best pals for almost a year during the pandemic, unless they live nearby and as I’ve said before, we all envy you if that’s the case! You are […]

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how to make new friends as an adult

How do you make new friends as an adult?

29th April 2021

After school or University it becomes more difficult to make new friends. Sure, there’s the opportunity to make friends at work, but since I went freelance (and moved home again) I’ve realised how difficult it is to make new friends as an adult. I mean, where do you meet them? And obviously the coronavirus has […]

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come back from a burnout

How do you come back after a burnout?

7th April 2021

Burnout is one of those buzz words that’s meaning has been watered down as we’ve used it so much during the pandemic. But we haven’t had our typical coping mechanisms; the spontaneous drinks or meals after work or weekends away to break up the day to day at work, so burnout is inevitable as the […]

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23 things I’ve learnt at 23

17th March 2021

I wasn’t sure if I needed to write about what I learnt at 23 after I read my post from last year about what I’d learnt at 22 which is full of slightly profound and pessimistic truths. I wrote that post after my break up (which I’ve written a bit about here) when I was […]

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let women walk alone

Women Should be able to Walk Alone in 2021

15th March 2021

On the night Sarah Everard’s body was found I went to bed thinking about Sarah and how every woman I know struggles to walk alone or exist anywhere. Every woman I know has a story about a man who has verbally and physically harassed them. Sometimes it was online, on a date, while sharing a […]

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